Calm over conflict.
Every feature has to lower the temperature of the day, not raise it. If something adds friction, we don't ship it — even if it's technically clever.
About
About Parli.
Parli didn't start with a big story. It started with a small need that kept coming up: a routine for parenting across two homes that gets scattered across messages, threads, and screenshots — and makes daily life noisier for kids than it has to be.
In early access. Built with two-home families.
Why
Why I'm building this
I'm building Parli because I believe the daily life of children in two-home families shouldn't depend on screenshots, memory, and tense messages.
The goal isn't to help parents win an argument. It's to lower the number of arguments needed to run an ordinary week — who picks up, when's practice, who paid for what, what needs to come back with the child from one home to the other.
Parli is being built as a calm, private, kid-first place for the small things that become big when they don't have a place of their own.
— Yoni
The change
What Parli is trying to change
Most of the tools separated parents use — WhatsApp, Google Calendar, a shared spreadsheet — weren't designed for the rhythm of two homes. They're great tools, just for different jobs. When you use them to coordinate between two parents, the rhythm breaks on every small detail: a reminder that didn't land, a receipt that got lost, a swap someone remembers differently.
That friction doesn't only sit between the adults. In the end, the kids feel it. They're the ones who notice the hesitation before a parent approves an activity, the short tense call at 7:30pm, the "mine says something different."
Parli tries to give those small details a place of their own — a calendar, an expense, a note, a contained conversation — so the routine moves more quietly. Not to replace relationships, not to replace the chat, not to replace a real conversation when one is needed. Just to give the small things a place to sit.
Principles
Four principles that lead the decisions
Not a values statement. Four decisions we come back to on every product question.
Kids at the center.
The first question on any product decision is "how does this affect the child" — not "how does this earn from the parents." If the child isn't the reason, it doesn't go in.
Privacy as a default.
Family information should stay inside the family space it was meant for. We don't sell information, don't build an ad model around family data, and don't add advertising to the coordination experience.
Honest about what's ready.
Parli is in early access. We say what already works, what we're still building, and what won't ever be there. When families join, they know what they're getting.
Transparency
What we won't do
So you know up front, not from the small print.
We won't sell family information.
Information about your family doesn't become a product. It isn't sold, isn't passed to third parties for marketing, and isn't used to build commercial profiles.
We won't run an ad model on the data.
Parli won't be ad-supported. There's no good reason for a family coordination tool to depend on a model built on distracted attention.
We won't claim security or compliance we haven't proven.
We don't use security, privacy, or compliance terms we haven't actually demonstrated. If and when we meet a formal standard, we'll say so clearly — and not before.
We won't claim legal capabilities we don't have.
Parli doesn't generate court files, evidence for legal proceedings, or child-support calculations. For day-to-day coordination that isn't what's needed — and for those who do need it, family-law professionals do that work properly.
We won't use invented numbers, reviews, or endorsements.
You won't see fictional five-star reviews here, inflated user counts, logos of organizations that aren't actually using us, or "recommended by experts" without names. If we put a number on the page, it'll be real. If there's no real number to write, we won't write one.
Early access
What "early access" actually means
Parli hasn't launched publicly. We onboard a small number of families each week, and that's deliberate.
If you join now, you get more than a product: a direct line to us, real answers about what's working and what isn't, and a chance to shape what's built next. It also means not everything is ready yet — some features are still being built, and the families who join now will see the app evolve with them.
The pace is a choice. Co-parenting is too sensitive to launch broadly and find out afterward that the product doesn't fit how families actually live. Better to build slowly with real people.
Get in touch
Write to us.
If you have a question, feedback, or an idea for a feature — we'd love to hear it. The team is small, and every email gets a personal reply.
Early access
Tell us a little about your co-parenting setup.
Parli is in early access. If it sounds like the kind of tool your family would actually use, send us a short note and we'll write back personally.
A small team, real replies. We'll only email you about Parli.
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