No more chasing calendar changes across messages.
Pickups shift, weeks differ, school adds a half-day. The plan ends up in three threads, two screenshots, and one tired memory.
A co-parenting app for two homes
Co-parenting, made calm.
Less coordinating in front of the kids. Less mental load at night. A shared, private place for the schedule, expenses, and care details that move between two homes.
Early access. Built with families across two homes.
Two homes. A hundred small details.
The hard part isn't the calendar. It's everything around it.
Most of what co-parents need to share isn't a meeting — it's the small, daily, important stuff. That's where the friction lives.
No more digging through receipt screenshots.
Fees, co-pays, soccer cleats, the birthday gift you split. You shouldn't need a forensic search to settle up.
No more relying on memory for handoff details.
Allergies. Reading level. The teacher's name. The mood. The handoff briefing deserves a home — not your head at 11pm.
Who Parli is for
Made for the families that actually live across two homes.
Separated parents
Coordinating across two homes without re-litigating every detail.
Divorced parents
Keeping kids' lives steady while the logistics live somewhere clearer.
Two-home families
Step-parents, grandparents, and helpers can see what they need — and nothing more.
Anyone who wants
Less chasing, fewer messages, and more time actually with their kids.
A quieter way
One shared place. For the things that matter most.
Parli is a calm, shared operating system for co-parenting — built for two homes, not for one parent's spreadsheet.
- Shared, not negotiated. A single schedule, expense ledger, and care record both parents can see. Less re-explaining.
- Calm by default. Notifications and threads are scoped to the topic. No infinite group chat.
- Child-first. Kids' info, routines, and allergies are treated as the most sensitive thing in the app.
What's inside
The six things co-parents actually use, every week.
Each one is a small, specific tool — not a giant inbox. Built so you can look once and move on.
01 · Shared calendar
The custody rhythm, in one place.
Custody weeks, school events, and one-off swaps live on one calendar both homes can see. No more chasing changes across messages.
- Recurring weeks and one-off swaps
- School calendar and activities side-by-side
- Color-coded by home, not by parent
02 · Co-parenting expenses
Receipts, splits, and reimbursements that balance.
Log shared costs once. Attach the receipt. Settle on a cadence that works for both homes — without spreadsheets or awkward reminders.
- Pre-set categories: school, health, activities
- 50/50, custom splits, or agreed exceptions
- Running balance — not a debt clock
03 · Care notes
The family handbook, finally in one place.
Allergies, routines, doctors, teachers, the bedtime book of the month. The small stuff that matters most — kept where both parents can find it.
- Per-child profile, both homes
- Medical, school, and routine sections
- Updates show what changed and when
04 · Handoff briefings
A factual five-line briefing at every transition.
What was eaten, what got finished, what's coming up. A short, neutral summary at the end of your time so the other parent isn't starting cold.
- Templates for school nights, weekends, sick days
- One-tap fields, no novel-writing
- Stays factual, by design
05 · Quiet messaging
Threads that stay on the topic, not on the relationship.
Messages are scoped to a kid, an event, or an expense — not an open chat. Less drift. Easier to find what was actually decided.
- Threads attach to events, kids, or expenses
- Neutral templates for common asks
- No reactions, no read-receipts pressure
06 · Documents
Insurance cards. School forms. The stuff you need at 8am.
Important documents in one place, accessible from either home, organized so you can find a file faster than you can text someone for it.
- Tagged by child and category
- Quick access from the home screen
- Permissions are clear — kids' info stays scoped
A moment with Parli
A Sunday night.
7:42 pm — your weekend ends in eighteen minutes.
You open the handoff briefing. Three taps: lunch yes, math homework done, mood calm. The library book goes in the bag.
You hand the kids over.
Your co-parent sees the same page from their phone. No text exchange. No "wait, did you tell me…"
The hard week starts on Monday for everyone. Parli isn't the cure. But Sunday at 7:42 just got quieter.
For one parent, or both
Parli works even before your co-parent joins.
Start with your half of the picture — the calendar, the receipts, the care notes. When the other parent is ready, invite them. They'll see the same page, not a re-explanation.
Built differently
Quiet on the outside. Careful underneath.
Parli is in early access. We'd rather make narrow, supportable claims now and earn trust over time.
Private by design.
Family information is the most sensitive thing in the app. Parli is built around that, not around it.
No advertising model around family data.
Parli is not built to monetize the details of your family. There are no ads in the family coordination experience.
No sale of family data.
We don't sell, rent, or trade family data to advertisers, brokers, or third parties. Period.
HTTPS everywhere on the website.
Every page and every request to parli.family is encrypted in transit, with strict security headers in place.
Child-first defaults.
Kids' information is treated as the most sensitive thing in the app. Access is scoped, not broadcast.
Designed for calm, not conflict.
Threads, templates, and notifications are built to reward clarity. Not to escalate, not to score points.
What we don't claim today: end-to-end encryption, SOC 2, HIPAA, GDPR compliance, or court-ready records. We'll only put those words on this page when they're true.
How it works
Four small steps to a calmer routine.
- 01
Create your family space
Set up a private space for your kids, with the categories that fit your routine — calendar, expenses, care notes, documents.
- 02
Invite the other parent
They get the same neutral view. No data asymmetry, no "who has the latest version" — just one shared source of truth.
- 03
Add your real life
Custody weeks, school calendar, recurring expenses, the small care details that always seem to get lost in messages.
- 04
Coordinate, don't chase
Updates flow in one place. Threads stay scoped to a topic. Less back-and-forth, more time with your kids.
Instead of…
The same daily things — only quieter.
What it usually looks like With Parli
Scattered threads across 4 different chats Threads scoped to a kid, an event, or an expense
Receipt screenshots and a forensic search to settle A running ledger with receipts attached and a clear balance
Mental load at 11 pm A shared family handbook both parents can read
Calendar swaps lost between Sunday and Monday A two-home calendar that shows the swap and who agreed
A tense reminder 5 minutes before pickup A factual handoff briefing — what was eaten, what's coming
Questions
Honest answers, while we're early.
Is Parli for divorced or separated parents?
Both — and any family living across two homes. Parli is built for the daily logistics of co-parenting, not for a specific legal status.
Does the other parent need to use it?
No — start solo. Parli works even before your co-parent joins. Begin with your half of the picture: the calendar, the receipts, the care notes. When the other parent is ready, invite them and they'll see the same page, not a re-explanation.
Is Parli a legal tool?
No. Parli helps you coordinate the day-to-day. We don't produce court filings, custody orders, or legal records, and we don't market this as a legal product.
What information can we store?
Schedules, expenses, care notes, handoff briefings, threads scoped to specific topics, and important documents. We'd rather start with the essentials and add the rest carefully.
Is Parli private?
Privacy is the product principle. The website is HTTPS-only with strict security headers. We don't sell or rent family data, and there are no ads in the family coordination experience. We'll publish more specific app-side privacy details as we ship.
When will it be available?
Parli is in early access. If you'd like to be among the first families we onboard, reach out and tell us a little about your setup — we'll write back personally.
Early access
Tell us a little about your co-parenting setup.
Parli is in early access. If it sounds like the kind of tool your family would actually use, send us a short note and we'll write back personally.
A small team, real replies. We'll only email you about Parli.
Know another two-home family? Send them this page
More from Parli
More on the app.
Overview
Co-parenting app
How Parli fits the routine of two homes — and what it isn't.
CalendarCustody calendar
Common patterns, holidays, swaps — for two homes.
ExpensesSplitting kids' expenses
Receipts, running balance, agreed splits — without spreadsheets.
AboutAbout Parli
Why I'm building Parli, what it tries to change, and what it won't be.